Real Voices: How Loved Ones React to Medical Cannabis

Medical cannabis and social stigma

On 1 November 2024 the UK will mark the sixth anniversary of the legalisation of cannabis for medical use. But despite being legal for almost six years, medical cannabis still carries a social stigma that makes it difficult for many patients to be open about their treatment.

In a survey conducted by Releaf in 2023, over two-thirds of participants said they would consider using medical cannabis, but almost a third admitted they wouldn’t feel comfortable telling their friends or family about it. 

Only 65.56% said they would tell people they were using prescribed cannabis, leaving over a third who would be ‘unlikely’ or ‘very unlikely’ to tell others.

Why does stigma exist?

There’s a lot to unpick when it comes to understanding the stigma attached to cannabis today. For many, it stems from the longstanding association between cannabis and illegal drug use and the prohibitive approaches to drug policy that have been implemented over the last 50 years, under what is known as the ‘War on Drugs’. 

Even though cannabis is increasingly being recognised for its medicinal value, some people fail to differentiate between recreational cannabis and medical cannabis. This can lead to feelings of judgement or suspicion towards those who are using it for legitimate health reasons. This issue is further compounded by negative portrayals in media and a lack of widespread public education.

Ryan, a chronic pain patient at Releaf, was faced with these outdated perceptions when he told his friends and family about his medical cannabis prescription.

"Only one friend had a negative reaction to my treatment. This person didn’t see the difference between my prescription vape pen and buying 'street' cannabis in a car park. I understand where she’s coming from, but it’s not the same.”

Read more on Ryan’s story here

Telling family members about your medical cannabis prescription

Many patients worry how their family members will react when starting medical cannabis treatment. Some fear misunderstanding or disapproval, especially from older generations who may have grown up during times when cannabis was strictly associated with illegal drug taking and criminality. 

However, many patients, like Helen, actually report positive experiences when it comes to telling loved ones. 

“My dad is 87 and my mum is 85, bless them, and they totally agree with what I'm doing. They told me that my health comes first and that I need to be as healthy as possible, so I can effectively care for my son.”  

Read Helen’s story

Hollie who previously used non-prescribed cannabis to manage her chronic pain, said:

“My parents are from a different generation so at first they didn't understand it, but the fact that I've got a prescription makes them much happier, and that makes me genuinely happier.”

James also says that while his mum found it ‘challenging’ at first things improved once he was able to explain it properly.

“She came around to my flat one day, and I showed her the vaporiser and said, “This is something I do now.” After I explained everything, she was fine with it. It was a bridge crossed.”  

In some cases, other family members even ended up benefiting from medical cannabis treatment themselves. 

When Laura’s mum saw how much it was helping her grandson Harry manage the symptoms of his Tourette’s syndrome, she felt it might be beneficial for her own health issues. Laura said: 

“My mother has been struggling with a few different health issues for the past few years, and when she saw how well Harry was doing with it, she decided to give it a go herself. 

Read Laura and Harry’s story here

And while at first, Ryan’s family were concerned about his prescription—particularly how it might affect his ability to drive— now they are exploring the treatment for his dad too.

“My friends and family have been able to see the difference too, and so they’re being supportive. Really, I’ve found everyone to be quite understanding… My dad actually wants to try medical cannabis now.”

While initial conversations with family and friends might feel intimidating, the people who care about you are often more open-minded than you might expect, especially when they see the positive changes medical cannabis can bring to your life.

As was the case for Ryan and his brother.

“My brother is amazed by the effects he’s seen. He always says, “Wow! I can’t believe it. How is this even possible?” I tell him that I don't know exactly how it works, but it's definitely working. For me, that’s the only thing that’s important.“

Medical cannabis in the workplace 

For some, the workplace is one of the most challenging environments to navigate as a medical cannabis patient. Concerns about colleagues’ perceptions and employer policies can create significant stress. In Daisy's case, stigma from her coworkers led to an uncomfortable situation:

"Certainly from wider society—the stigma is massive. When my work colleagues tried to report me, I got asked by someone who had known me for 10 years if I'd been intoxicated at work—that’s the automatic response."

However, other patients, like Brandon, have found that transparency can help mitigate workplace concerns. By discussing his treatment openly with his manager and providing information about the legitimacy of his prescription, Brandon was able to gain his employer's full support.

"I’ve always felt like full transparency is the best approach. I arranged a chat with my manager about the treatment. I wasn’t sure what their reaction would be, but they just said, 'Okay. It’s a legal medication, and that’s perfectly okay.'"

Growing acceptance of medical cannabis

The good news is that attitudes towards medical cannabis are changing, thanks to growing awareness and increasing numbers of patients sharing their stories.

Over 85% of people surveyed by Releaf in 2023 said they were likely to support someone they know using medical cannabis. This suggests that the more people learn about the therapeutic benefits of cannabis, the more the social barriers will break down.

Matt, a patient with multiple sclerosis (MS), is one of many patients working to educate others about medical cannabis:

"As the benefits for my health have become more obvious, I’ve tried to educate my family and friends about it. Now that I’m a legal patient, I’m even more open to discussions with the public if they wanted to approach me about the aroma or whatever."

The growing openness about medical cannabis helps dismantle outdated stigmas, making it easier for others to come forward and explore this treatment option for themselves.

Reassurance and support for new patients 

It’s normal to be anxious or have concerns when starting any new treatment, but particularly one which has long standing social stigmas such as cannabis. While it can come with difficult conversations, it’s important to point out that many patients, like Rhona, have experienced only support and understanding from their loved ones:

"I have been extremely open with my family and friends about my prescription, and all I have received is support and understanding."

It’s also worth remembering that while every patient’s journey is unique, the benefits people experience from medical cannabis treatment often outweigh any initial anxiety surrounding social perceptions.

Many patients feel more secure in the knowledge that they have a prescription and having a medical cannabis card, like the one provided by Releaf offers a sense of reassurance when carrying their medication in public.

Brandon says:

“Previously, I was always on edge when I used cannabis, because of the stigma. I would think, “What if someone sees me? What if someone at work finds out if I've used cannabis abroad?” I don't have to worry about that any more, because now, the legalities are on my side.

Ryan adds:

“I feel like having the card gives me a bit of power, or back-up I guess. I can prove I’m not doing anything wrong or acting illegally, I’m literally just taking a medicine that has been prescribed to me.”

If you’re ever unsure or need guidance on navigating these difficult conversations or any of the social aspects of medical cannabis, please reach out to Releaf’s Patient Support Team who are always on hand to help. 

Share your story

If you’ve been inspired by the patient testimonies in this blog, we’d love to invite you to share your story too. It not only helps break down stigma but also provides reassurance to others who may be struggling with similar concerns. We’d love to hear from you.